Regenerating interest?

[Wombat48]

Hi Everyone
I have been rather neglecting this site over recent months in favour of Omarashi .Org which although very friendly is dominated by Males who are primarily interested in Female material so in reality has limited material for me!

Does anyone have any ideas how we can get more people contributing here?
I certainly intend to become more active myself

Also a couple of questions
As well as desperation my other major interest is holding/bladder capacity- Omo has a live action thread where people can hold together- would something similar here be of any interest to the group?

Also is it ok to post our own vids on the video thread in the other board here?

Thanks

[Brian]

Does anyone have any ideas how we can get more people contributing here?

All suggestions are welcome! I certainly think our site suffers from not being well enough known.

As well as desperation my other major interest is holding/bladder capacity- Omo has a live action thread where people can hold together- would something similar here be of any interest to the group?

This could work using forum posts (this site has no live chat function as such), but you'd probably have to arrange in advance to do it with others here at a particular time. (Unless you really want to try and hold on until someone happens to log in and engage you before it's too late! ) I guess anyone interested in doing this with you can post here in the thread or PM you.

Also is it ok to post our own vids on the video thread in the other board here?

Generally speaking yes. But if you're linking to a site which shows any adult material, even if the video concerned is not "adult", it must go into the Stronger Interests section where we have a separate topic for videos. And obviously absolutely no underage subjects.

[Fred]

Because I have accessibility problems (I'm still getting just the text-only version and often get blocked when I try to post a reply), there may be others with the same difficulty.

[Dazza88]

Can the site be shared on tumblr? Or could the site be linked to a tumblr page?

[evergreen]

I have, ever since I was just a young lad, enjoyed being desperate to go to the toilet and found excitement in wondering if I'd make it to the toilet in time. Sometimes I would be pissing before I got my dick out of my underpants and the consequent worry of the wet patch, how large and would I hide it. I found that fear quite arousing especially after my schooldays and when I was a grown up at college and then work.

I have always enjoyed seeing other peoples failure. In the same way I enjoy watching my trousers change colour I enjoy seeing other peoples do the same - football matches - bus rides etc. I like to think the guy is going through the same desperation I do. The idea of dealing with a talkative, but very good customer, and finally peeing myself as they clear the phone - a couple of times doing just that when talking with Mum on the phone, phone in left hand, right hand holding myself and the wee squirting through my fingers as sheer desperation turns into sheer pleasure! Stories by Lee often turn the holder into a loser and I delight in his description of how it is to fail and suffer the humiliation of discovery, the wet underpants, the soaked office trousers, wet socks and shoes and the puddle on the floor.

I think there are perhaps a good many others who are not much interested in desperation for it's own sake without any consequences, rather like watching a video of football supporters pissing against a wall. Be nicer for me if they were pissing their pants!

Finally the answer we need is why we have hundreds of members who never ever share an experience or write a fun story but it is thus on sites like tumbler or Flickr where the number of watchers far outweighs the number of activists. We only have our experiences and imaginations to offer.

Finally don't be discouraged. It is a site I love and would miss if it died.

[Brian]

Can the site be shared on tumblr? Or could the site be linked to a tumblr page?

This is a good suggestion.
Does anyone already have a tumblr page on our topic or similar which could link to ladspissing.com ?

[Brian]

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Finally the answer we need is why we have hundreds of members who never ever share an experience or write a fun story but it is thus on sites like tumbler or Flickr where the number of watchers far outweighs the number of activists. We only have our experiences and imaginations to offer.

Finally don't be discouraged. It is a site I love and would miss if it died.

Yes, lots of people visit the site but never post. I lurked on sites like this one myself for years before daring to post anything. As you say, it's the same with other sites and it's just the way it is.

What you write beforehand about what interests you certainly resonates with me and I think with many others here. This site, and its predecessors run by Tytn and Fred, always matched my interests exactly, whereas more mainstream WS sites don't interest me so much. The emphasis on male desperation and wetting is what sets us apart from other sites, I think. We're a minority interest within a minority interest.

[Lee]

I have to be totally honest here and say that I sometimes find it difficult to retain my enthusiasm for posting on here. I love writing stories although I know that they often don’t hit the right note with some, but that’s fine. We all have different likes and persuasions and as long as there’s nothing for others to find offensive I don’t see this as too much of a problem.

However, what is difficult is that none of us...and I totally include myself in this...really follow up any stories so that they can be developed further. Many (and again, I’m not one of them) respond with a ‘great story’, ‘really enjoyed that’ etc comment but then that’s the end of it. I don’t even do that and I apologise wholeheartedly for not doing so.

But what you will all have seen from my efforts are that I am fascinated by the events that surround an accident. What happened afterwards? And not just the following day but the following months. How do others view an accident? Do they dismiss it or is there a sense of wanting to know more? What about family members and friends who find out? How does the person get home and what do they do about their wet clothes etc?

There are literally loads of accompanying events that I’d love to develop further but whilst I’d probably find pleasure writing about them, I know that the majority would probably say it’s not worth the effort.

Does anyone remember Police Constable Jake Cleary who wet himself whilst lining the parade route? I had a real desire to develop that story further and I did have a go at doing so but I still think there was another chapter. But for whose benefit? Probably mine! And even I’m not that self-indulgent!!

I sometimes think it would be lovely to have a chat facility where such situations could be developed without having to give as much thought as would be the case if it were to be written up as a story. And you’d also know that the other party or parties involved would be doing so because they were interested and not just to be polite.

I’ve always said that anyone who wants to know why I write the way I do is more than free to message me privately, but to be frank, an exchange like that can take hours, if not days. And I don’t think any of us have such time or inclination.

Anyway, just my thoughts.

[Wombat48]

I think Lee makes some really interesting
Points, and I have been planning to write a follow up to the builder in the van story but never got around to it!
I think live chat would be great for lots of reasons as well as a facility to directly upload videos

[Connor]

There's still a good core of people who keep this site active, which is good. I suppose it's very niche, I can't even remember how I first found it, but it's been a lot of the same people involved in posting for a long time, so it's positive that there is still that strong core of people who will keep it alive. I myself haven't written any stories recently so I am totally guilty! I suppose sometimes I just find it difficult to come up with a good idea ...I've enjoyed writing before based on true events, one of my favourite stories to write was about the guys on the London train, based on real news reports. Maybe I could follow that up, maybe and aftermath story. Or if people have any other ideas, I'd be happy to get back into story writing mode....