Hi all, this might be a long shot, but is there anyone in the UK who is looking to meet like minded guys for desperation?
I can travel to most places in the UK with planning, and am hoping to meet somebody who can put me in desperate situations, such as handcuffs, a car journey, a trip on public transport etc. Basically, take me well out of my comfort zone.
Always happy to chat of course, but I am looking to meet ultimately:)
Genuine meet
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Love the site, the stories etc - has anyone met for real from here to turn the chat into reality?
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So far I've never met anyone in this community in real life, only developed online friendships with a few so far. But I did meet another guy about 10 years ago from an old site called WetPantsBoy. I don't think he ever joined our community here. But yes, chat was indeed turned into reality.
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Ah, that gives me hope! As I say, I love the stories and online stuff, it just seems a pity we seem unable to turn online into reality at some point
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Adrian6970
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I'm happy to undertake social meets, although I'm in the East Midlands so quite a distance from you.
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I'm happy with distance - let's talk:)
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Hello,
I also agree with you. It would be so cool to change the stories and dreams into reality.
I also agree with you. It would be so cool to change the stories and dreams into reality.
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I like the idea of having an accident infront of a guy that i find attractive but I'm quite shy and self conscious and have no idea what im doing, plus they would need to be into it otherwise I think it would too weird and inappropriate and risky to just wet myself on a date with someone I genuinely liked (as hot as that would probably be 
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Yes, difficult one.Dontpissitaway wrote: ↑22 Jun 2023, 23:33 I like the idea of having an accident infront of a guy that i find attractive but I'm quite shy and self conscious and have no idea what im doing, plus they would need to be into it otherwise I think it would too weird and inappropriate and risky to just wet myself on a date with someone I genuinely liked (as hot as that would probably be
I'm in an open relationship and have occasionally dated other guys. Occasionally I've dropped a hint beforehand. Sometimes it was a clear "not interested" or even "that's disgusting!", and sometimes he signalled he wasn't interested but nonetheless told me about something interesting which had happened to him or to a male friend. Just once I struck gold, and the signal came from the other guy in that case. He emailed me beforehand saying something like "what are your hottest, wettest fantasies?" which I took to be a green light to tell him, and we ended up having a great time together. The details of that would need to be in Stronger Interests here.